One thing about having a child who has ADHD tendencies is
that sleep does not come easily. There is
too much for them to do and too few hours in the day. As Amelia says “we can’t sleep TOO much”.
While she doesn’t find trouble, she isn’t exactly a quiet
little mouse. There are nights that I
put her to bed at 8pm and she will still be awake and playing when I go to bed
at 10pm.
Here’s what I hear (done in the voice of her “friends”
Mickey, Minnie and their friends, all stuffed animals that she has):
Mickey: You can’t
stay in the bath too long or you’ll become a prune.
Donald: Princesses
can’t become prunes.
Mickey: But her Mommy can
and then she won’t have a mommy anymore.
Me: AMELIA YOU NEED
TO BE QUIET AND GO TO SLEEP
Mickey: I can’t help
it, that’s how I talk.
Donald: She said to
go to sleep.
And on and on and on.
One day last week she was awake from 130am-6 in the
morning. She had school and I had work
the next day. While it is not easy for me to function, somehow she seems to make it though.
Monday of this week she woke up at 4:30am and it did
not make for an easy day that included a stress test for me. Of
course, she then went to school and apparently punched 2 boys…because they
wouldn’t move out of her way.
Well, I do teach her to defend herself but geez!
Not sure if it was lack of sleep or what, but this Momma’s at
her wits end.
Before all of the advice starts rolling in, yes, I’ve
probably tried everything your going to say and thanks but no thanks on the medical
advice. I am in constant contact with
her pediatrician and we are raising the dosage on Melatonin starting tonight. I know there are a million more all-natural
remedies but I won’t give anything without the pediatricians approval—I figure
if she went through 8+ years at school I can go by that and, of course, my Mommy
instinct. After all, every person is
different. I also have some other things
I’m asking her about.
So anyways, I know there are others who deal with this. I have a few friends whose children have
ADHD, Autism and many other “disorders” and we talk about it frequently. That doesn’t mean that if your child isn’t
sleeping that they have one of these, some kids are just hard at bedtime.
So how was last night?
She went to bed at 9pm and slept until 6:15 this morning—I see a boxing
class in her future. LOOK OUT BOYS!
(sorry for the rambling, sleep is not easy to catch up on)
No major advice but I feel for you. We just this year finally got my ODS to sleep. I will say when his ADHD meds are working he sleeps his best but she is still way too young for them. Hopefully something will work out for you soon!
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